Every new year carries a little spark, a sense of possibility, a quiet invitation to start again.
But for those of us who feel the growing discomfort of staying the same, it’s more than a spark.
It’s a lifeline.
If you’re standing at the threshold of a new chapter, tired of the old patterns, tired of pretending you’re not ready, this is your moment.
Not because the calendar says so, but because your inner world is done with the old chapter.
Why Real Change Happens From the Inside Out
New year resolutions fail when we try to upgrade our habits but leave our identity untouched.
If you want a true reset, true change, the kind that actually sticks, you have to shift the story underneath your choices:
• Who you think you’re allowed to be
• What you believe you deserve
• How safe you feel taking up space
• How much joy you’re willing to let in
• What version of you is quietly asking to be seen
This is the deeper work.
And it’s exactly why the new year can be such a powerful ene...
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There’s a certain kind of stuck that doesn’t look like giving up.
It looks like pushing, trying, doing… and still feeling like you’re walking through wet cement.
If you’re honest, you’re not “a little off.”
You’re deeply uncomfortable in your own life, in a way that’s getting harder to ignore.
And as the new year inches closer, something in you is whispering:
This is it. Something has to shift.
Trust that whisper. It’s not your imagination. It’s your turning point.
You’re Not Alone, A Lot of Us Are Here
I’ve been living this edge myself.
New era. New identity. New location. New work.
It’s a bizarre mix of excitement and existential nausea.
And the people I’m talking to right now?
They’re all in this same place, tired of looping, tired of pretending, tired of staying small because it feels familiar.
It's like a group awakening.
They’re ready for a reset not because it’s the end of the year… but because their soul is genuinely done being cramped.
Why We Stay Stuck Longe...
We all know that we need to allow ourselves to rest in order to put our best version of ourselves into the world but very few of us actually do this.
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This is just one of the pressures we put on ourselves, to do, do, do, and then do more.Â
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We also don’t allow ourselves any time to feel the negative feelings that are just a part of life.Â
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You see there is this pressure to always be positive, to raise our vibration, to be a bright ray of sunshine in order to attract this same energy into our lives.Â
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The truth is, it’s not just okay for you to be not okay, but it’s also necessary to be not okay in order for us to process these feelings.
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If we mask these feelings, if we push them down and try to hold them there. They will resurface, they are still there, and you can’t positive mantra the shit out of them.Â
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There is a saying that Wayne Dyer said and I’m sure I’ll screw it up a bit, but here it goes. When you squeeze an orange, orange juice comes out, what comes out wh...