Deep Level Self Care Series: From People Pleaser To Boundary Bad*ss
Hello Soul Aligned Self Care Family,
In this second self-care practice from the SASC Bootcamp I will talk more about boundaries. Where you might need them, how to set them, and how to maintain them.
"I always say that boundaries are the foundation of all self-care, without boundaries to protect your energy and time, all the other self-care and self-love work get stripped down a bit."
I want to start by saying I’ve gone through this process myself going from award-winning people pleaser to boundary badass and it doesn’t happen overnight but the rewards were life-changing and life-saving for me.
Some of the benefits:
- Reducing stress and anxiety.
- Creating space and time for rest.
- Creating space and time for fun.
- Deeper more authentic relationships.
- Expanded creativity.
- Improved health.
- Improved sleep.
I could keep going but as you can see, very impressive benefits.
Having the people-pleasing tendency is definitely more common among women mostly because of the societal expectation for us to be the nurturers in the community.
Many women feel pressured to or are expected to care for everyone else before they do anything for themselves if they do for themselves at all.
We have been told to wear this behavior as a badge of honor in communities even if it takes away from our health and happiness substantially.
Now I’m not saying you don’t care for anyone but yourself, I’m just saying you should give yourself at LEAST the same care you give others, FIRST. If you practice this, then you get to put a well-rested happy version of yourself back into your family and community.
Setting boundaries and maintaining them is part of this type of care for yourself.
Let's get into it!
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